I decided to be a little light hearted today.
I wanna know ladies and gents what makes a relationship work?
I know about the 50/50 bull crap.
Let's be honest and agree there's no such thing as 50/50.
Woman pretty much take 70% or more whenever she feels the need.
I want to know why are expectations placed so high on a person.
If the person you decided to have a relationship with came with a disclaimer, who's at fault?
I come with one. Well several.
A tendency to forget.
Issues with communicating with my spouse.
Has a problem with arguing..Don't like to.
Don't sleep well at night so chances are I will be up til 3AM.
Short attention span.
I'm not a going out type of person, don't try to turn me into a club hopper.
I need to be accepted as I am.
What maybe fucked up to you, is fine in my eyes.
Been this way for a minute!
So, excuse me if I'm not able to conform to your liking at the drop of a dime.
Shit takes time!
Then there's the...I have a lot of shit I'm dealing with.
Guess what? So do I.
I don't believe that we are suppose to be in agreement all the time.
What I look for is to walk away and give me space to get it together so that I don't say something stupid.
I can't speak for anyone but myself.
My past relationships are just that in the past.
If I didn't learn from it, then I can't take anything to the next relationship.
To be frank, for the most part, I didn't learn much.
For me, I was always working and being the provider.
Never had time to try and nurture.
Some cases it backfired.
Either they cheated or couldn't handle me not being around.
Again disclaimer: Workaholic!
I do know now, that I don't have the patience for someone that doesn't have patience for me.
Dealing with my erratic ass takes a lot.
Disclaimer:I know I'm a scatter brain.
I know I have a nervous condition...My mouth will have all kinds of smart shit coming out of it, to the point you may w ant to slap my ass with a brick!
Everyone wants everything all at once.
In this day and age, if its not happening RIGHT NOW, there's a problem
This is probably where the communication peace comes in.
How about asking one another some simple questions.
Could be the two of you are crossing paths at the wrong time, maybe you are just wrong for one another.
Maybe the person on the other end may not have the patience to deal.
That's okay. Just means that some people are not compatible.
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
They Are Crazy Because They Are White!
Remember when a church, mosque or temple was viewed as a place of worship?
A place of peace so to speak.
Well, I guess we can change that to the last place you might see of your time here on Earth.
Another "American" decided that he can't tolerate another race but his own, and opened fire on a Sikh temple in Wisconsin.
The authorities are calling this last incident "Domestic Terrorism".
Really? Need to go off on another tangent for just a second.
Women and minorities are terrorized domestically everyday!
The middle class is terrorized financially every pay period.
The public school system is terrorized every school year due to a broken system!
Older Americans are terrorized everyday because after the age of 40 you are screwed in the work force!
Ok! That's over.
Here we go again. White American goes ballistic!
Aurora Colorado shooter, will say he is insane and try to plead.
The idiot that sprayed bullets on Ms. Giffords will attempt to cop a plea.
George Zimmerman, is a little more creative.
Zimmerman said it was the devine heavens from above.
Trayvon was called home to God. Trayvon's murder was fate and was meant to be.
Wade Michael Page got off easy.
The police turned him into fun at the gun range by shooting every organ out of his body.
Had he not been killed by the police, I believe he would have tried to a cop a plea as well.
The police did us a favor. Why waste taxpayer's money or time on a person that cared so little about someone else's life?
These excuses that are given about white folks when they wild out is laughable.
The Columbine kids were teased and felt like outsiders. Listening to rock music made them do it.
Holmes(Colorado) had issues and they weren't addressed says a psychiatrist. Holmes left his school, before anyone could help him.
They were Sandusky-ed as children.
This is the stupid shit that the rest of America has to read on a regular about the so called majority.
This is not just about terrorism in our country, this shit is the worst kind of racism!
What we do is sugar coat shit, sweep it under the rug and wait for the media to shut the fuck up about the situation.
We give every excuse in the world as to why a white dude or chick would be so fucked up!
After all the world is your oyster.
A white heroin addict will get a job before me, and all I do is drink Miller Lites!
The only thing that should concern the media or the rest of us is why are folks able to buy Army issued weapons from a gun shop?
I have a few weapons, but compared to these folk, its more like a rock and a slingshot.
Went off on another tangent...sorry.
I can't speak for everyone else. What I want from these people when they decide to make the news at someone's expense be honest.
You did this shit because that is you and that's what you are a FUCKING COWARD!!!!
A place of peace so to speak.
Well, I guess we can change that to the last place you might see of your time here on Earth.
Another "American" decided that he can't tolerate another race but his own, and opened fire on a Sikh temple in Wisconsin.
The authorities are calling this last incident "Domestic Terrorism".
Really? Need to go off on another tangent for just a second.
Women and minorities are terrorized domestically everyday!
The middle class is terrorized financially every pay period.
The public school system is terrorized every school year due to a broken system!
Older Americans are terrorized everyday because after the age of 40 you are screwed in the work force!
Ok! That's over.
Here we go again. White American goes ballistic!
Aurora Colorado shooter, will say he is insane and try to plead.
The idiot that sprayed bullets on Ms. Giffords will attempt to cop a plea.
George Zimmerman, is a little more creative.
Zimmerman said it was the devine heavens from above.
Trayvon was called home to God. Trayvon's murder was fate and was meant to be.
Wade Michael Page got off easy.
The police turned him into fun at the gun range by shooting every organ out of his body.
Had he not been killed by the police, I believe he would have tried to a cop a plea as well.
The police did us a favor. Why waste taxpayer's money or time on a person that cared so little about someone else's life?
These excuses that are given about white folks when they wild out is laughable.
The Columbine kids were teased and felt like outsiders. Listening to rock music made them do it.
Holmes(Colorado) had issues and they weren't addressed says a psychiatrist. Holmes left his school, before anyone could help him.
They were Sandusky-ed as children.
This is the stupid shit that the rest of America has to read on a regular about the so called majority.
This is not just about terrorism in our country, this shit is the worst kind of racism!
What we do is sugar coat shit, sweep it under the rug and wait for the media to shut the fuck up about the situation.
We give every excuse in the world as to why a white dude or chick would be so fucked up!
After all the world is your oyster.
A white heroin addict will get a job before me, and all I do is drink Miller Lites!
The only thing that should concern the media or the rest of us is why are folks able to buy Army issued weapons from a gun shop?
I have a few weapons, but compared to these folk, its more like a rock and a slingshot.
Went off on another tangent...sorry.
I can't speak for everyone else. What I want from these people when they decide to make the news at someone's expense be honest.
You did this shit because that is you and that's what you are a FUCKING COWARD!!!!
Thursday, July 26, 2012
Education
Just read an article that I thought everyone would be interested in.
Though some of the statistics are alarming, I believe we should want to know what's going on not just in Chicago, but across the board.
Think it's time to hold Democrats and Republicans accountable.
People you have a voice, start using yours.
http://www.
Though some of the statistics are alarming, I believe we should want to know what's going on not just in Chicago, but across the board.
Think it's time to hold Democrats and Republicans accountable.
People you have a voice, start using yours.
http://www.
Elena Verlee elena.verlee001@gmail.com
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Response To A Reader
Black Disciples Leader Who Ran Drugs & Gun Trade, Dead at 60:
I will be the first to apologize if a reader thinks I may have crossed the line.
What I will never do is apologize for bringing to light incidents that happened in the past that brought pain, suffering, drugs, and loss in the black community.
So Anonymous: Person without a name, here's to you.
You friend at 37 years of age, can't school me on any events that occurred during Jerome Freeman's time on this earth.
The Jerome that you saw was the watered down version. A man that was to spend the rest of his life in prison. What else is there to do but either become more bitter or find religion?
Maybe you should have met him in his heyday when you didn't follow orders or was part of a rival gang.
Between videos and Jerome's own admission, he clearly stated that he did some things in his past that he was not proud of.
That's where my information came from, along with interviewing people who were either around Jerome or saw first hand what "Shorty" did to OUR community.
So, I guess being the head MOFO of the Black Disciples was my and everyone's imagination.
Hey Anonymous, try telling people who loss a family member at the hands of Jerome or asking a person who survived an ass beating at the hands of Jerome or one of his boys.
Ladies and Gentleman, that's our problem.
It's not just Jerome, the minute an athlete, or some thug off the street get a hint of being behind bars, what do we do?
Remove the dredlocks and cornrolls and find Jesus. We're saved!!
We uphold or find an excuse for someone who had no respect for authority, or another person's life.
Again, what do we do? I don't believe they killed anyone. Or here's a good one.
What he did in the past is just that, the past.
How dare you or anyone ask me to forget crimes committed against our community.
This is the second anonymous comment I received, concerning two different people that committed murder.
They lived to see another day. Unfortunately the people they killed, didn't.
Jerome, "pardon the pun" got away with murder.
So excuse me if I don't have a little sympathy towards a man that had a cold heart, showed no remorse during his tenure as one of the biggest drug and arms dealers in history.
Thursday, June 21, 2012
Adidas SLAMMED for Promoting Slavery Shoes
At first glance of this ridiculous shoe, I thought it was a joke, a really ugly joke, then I realized it wasn't, this was really a product that Adidas thought that they could pawn off this plantation style fuckery on the masses.
The official advertising by-line of the shoe was "your game is so hot, you lock your kicks to your ankles".
What? Now, Adidas, now I know that not only is your design team clueless, but so is your promotion team
How about I lock my shoe in the ass of the nimrod who got permission to come up with and promote this shit on the market!!!
What part of this is not offensive and stupid?
Let's check the imagery....SHACKLES, SLAVERY, RACIST AND INSULTING.
Which brings me to another point. This type of bafoonery is really geared toward a certain demographic. The group not concerned with shoe performance or true style.
This shoe was tailor-made for the thug-ass ghetto, don't want nothing, trying to floss folks, that will buy or steal anything new that they think will up their street style quotient.
And that doesn't exclude any race or group that caters to simplistic thinking with a group mentality.
The ultimate shoe, with the price tag that matches, with simple folks loving to spend money they don't have, on silly items that won't mean anything in four months or less.
It is like they can't wait to brag to the other un-educated idiots in his social circle that he dropped two hundred dollars on a pair of shoes that he's wearing, walking up and down the street to destination nowhere! I'm sure those shoes will lose some tread, on those half-dozen trips a day to the corner store to buy chips, juice, and the occasional malt liquor.
Ghetto does it to themselves. Think about it. Everything revolves around a prison mentality.
Sagging pants, showing underwear, white t-shirts, black hoodies, hanging out in groups on the corner, teardrop tatoos, music that promotes rape, violence and chaos, and the number one pet peeve, DIRTY ASS DREDLOCKS or as I'd like to call them Raggedy Andylocks!
I happen to sport the doo and it has never occurred to me to have my hair look like I wash my hair daily in the Chicago River.
Can't blame Adidas.
Then again corporate America, I do need you to stop acting like the dumbasses on the street.
Stop being a follower and be above the bullshit! Your pockets won't suffer.
The official advertising by-line of the shoe was "your game is so hot, you lock your kicks to your ankles".
What? Now, Adidas, now I know that not only is your design team clueless, but so is your promotion team
How about I lock my shoe in the ass of the nimrod who got permission to come up with and promote this shit on the market!!!
What part of this is not offensive and stupid?
Let's check the imagery....SHACKLES, SLAVERY, RACIST AND INSULTING.
Which brings me to another point. This type of bafoonery is really geared toward a certain demographic. The group not concerned with shoe performance or true style.
This shoe was tailor-made for the thug-ass ghetto, don't want nothing, trying to floss folks, that will buy or steal anything new that they think will up their street style quotient.
And that doesn't exclude any race or group that caters to simplistic thinking with a group mentality.
The ultimate shoe, with the price tag that matches, with simple folks loving to spend money they don't have, on silly items that won't mean anything in four months or less.
It is like they can't wait to brag to the other un-educated idiots in his social circle that he dropped two hundred dollars on a pair of shoes that he's wearing, walking up and down the street to destination nowhere! I'm sure those shoes will lose some tread, on those half-dozen trips a day to the corner store to buy chips, juice, and the occasional malt liquor.
Ghetto does it to themselves. Think about it. Everything revolves around a prison mentality.
Sagging pants, showing underwear, white t-shirts, black hoodies, hanging out in groups on the corner, teardrop tatoos, music that promotes rape, violence and chaos, and the number one pet peeve, DIRTY ASS DREDLOCKS or as I'd like to call them Raggedy Andylocks!
I happen to sport the doo and it has never occurred to me to have my hair look like I wash my hair daily in the Chicago River.
Can't blame Adidas.
Then again corporate America, I do need you to stop acting like the dumbasses on the street.
Stop being a follower and be above the bullshit! Your pockets won't suffer.
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Romney Tries to Woo Latino Votes By Using the Possibility of Rubio as VP
Mis-informed Mitt really wants me to believe that he is seriously considering Florida Republican Senator Marco Rubio for a running mate.
No, I don't believe it for a second. Although, Rubio has a great following in the Hispanic community, he's only been in the Senate for two years and he's only forty one years old.
Picking Rubio may blow up in his face like Palin did for McCain. It is almost like a Groundhog's Day disaster. Senator Rubio, though probably infinitely more informed on the issues than the former Duh Governor from Alaska, Palin, he has his share of baggage that the Romney camp will probably not want to deal with at this stage of the game.
Mittens has yet to answer questions about his stance on immigration. Even top Republicans are asking him to make a stand, any stand, at this point.
I mean, at least an honest answer to show that he has thoughts on the subject. He is kind of damned no matter what, anyway, if he picks Rubio, it will look like a ploy to pander to the Latino community and they can see through that gameplan....it just would't look good.
During this vetting process, Romney and camp, need to find out if the stories about Rubio embellishing his family's past are true. His stories about his Cuban exile parents seem to change and morph with every speaking engagement. I mean if he is lying about that, what else is he lying about?
Marco Rubio's been caught in a pickle when it comes to lying. That ego is something else and it shows that everything shiny isn't gold.
The Washington Post dug up some dirt on Rubio concerning a loan that he didn't disclose when he was supposed to and he has run up expenses on the Republican Party Florida Credit card. It seems that he has champagne tastes with the taxpayers' dollars.
You know that more than certain, that strip joint workers have been paid handsomely through Floridian tax money.
Mitt has come to his defense, but I'm sure thats his "out" from Senator Rubio as a serious VP choice.
It's really too much drama from a person that says he's not even interested in the V.P. position.
Besides, will Mittens really want to alienate the good old boys in the Republican network with such a potentially "controversial" choice?
Yeah Right!
No, I don't believe it for a second. Although, Rubio has a great following in the Hispanic community, he's only been in the Senate for two years and he's only forty one years old.
Picking Rubio may blow up in his face like Palin did for McCain. It is almost like a Groundhog's Day disaster. Senator Rubio, though probably infinitely more informed on the issues than the former Duh Governor from Alaska, Palin, he has his share of baggage that the Romney camp will probably not want to deal with at this stage of the game.
Mittens has yet to answer questions about his stance on immigration. Even top Republicans are asking him to make a stand, any stand, at this point.
I mean, at least an honest answer to show that he has thoughts on the subject. He is kind of damned no matter what, anyway, if he picks Rubio, it will look like a ploy to pander to the Latino community and they can see through that gameplan....it just would't look good.
During this vetting process, Romney and camp, need to find out if the stories about Rubio embellishing his family's past are true. His stories about his Cuban exile parents seem to change and morph with every speaking engagement. I mean if he is lying about that, what else is he lying about?
Marco Rubio's been caught in a pickle when it comes to lying. That ego is something else and it shows that everything shiny isn't gold.
The Washington Post dug up some dirt on Rubio concerning a loan that he didn't disclose when he was supposed to and he has run up expenses on the Republican Party Florida Credit card. It seems that he has champagne tastes with the taxpayers' dollars.
You know that more than certain, that strip joint workers have been paid handsomely through Floridian tax money.
Mitt has come to his defense, but I'm sure thats his "out" from Senator Rubio as a serious VP choice.
It's really too much drama from a person that says he's not even interested in the V.P. position.
Besides, will Mittens really want to alienate the good old boys in the Republican network with such a potentially "controversial" choice?
Yeah Right!
John Boehner Blames Obama For Derailing Dream Act After He Stalled Dream Act-Style Bill
Tsk, tsk Mr. Boehner....
I assume from his actions and past statements that Mr."Speaker of the House" Boehner is like most of the 1 percenter folks who believe that the average American doesn't have a clue.
I think that is one of the only reasons that old "Bone-Head" Boehner would utter his latest crazy such a thing.
Now let's be up front about the facts, Bone Head. The President has tried to push the Dream Act since he's been in office. Your good ole boys shot him down in 2010 with an unified show of misguided unity. Now, for the "I'm for the rich" buttholes that they are, the president's latest decision is now an issue.
The Republicans screaming foul because they've been outwitted and "I Shed A Thousand Tears" Boehner is upset that the President took the high road and back-doored his ass on this issue. If the House wasn't going to try the bi-partisan route, then he figured out another way to get some sort of resolution on the table, after all, people's futures and lives are in the balance. You can't go forward, if you are stuck by your past.
Unfortunately, as usual, folks are being caught in the politcal crossfire. This particular time it involves the Latino community.
Boehner says we are operating in a hostile political enviroment. Really????
Are you referring to the hostile political climate that you, the Congress, Teapublicans, and big corporate lobbyists have created? Basically, the groups that are preventing ordinary, hard-working Americans from getting ahead.
What did we average American folks in the 99 percent, ever do to the 1 percent that causes them to support the constant sticking in the ass?
How much more money and power do you and your special interest folks need to take to be completely satisfied?
When is enough enough?
When will they realize that eventually the majority will get tired of being taken advantage of and their position will be threatened by the masses?
You can't keep screwing up most of the population without consequences.
I'm really more disgusted with Boehner because of his humble background. He grew up poor, so you would think that his uppity ass would be more sensitive to the plight of the poor.
But then again, when your pockets have been stuffed like a high-priced whore during convention weekend, you kinda forget those things.
I assume from his actions and past statements that Mr."Speaker of the House" Boehner is like most of the 1 percenter folks who believe that the average American doesn't have a clue.
I think that is one of the only reasons that old "Bone-Head" Boehner would utter his latest crazy such a thing.
Now let's be up front about the facts, Bone Head. The President has tried to push the Dream Act since he's been in office. Your good ole boys shot him down in 2010 with an unified show of misguided unity. Now, for the "I'm for the rich" buttholes that they are, the president's latest decision is now an issue.
The Republicans screaming foul because they've been outwitted and "I Shed A Thousand Tears" Boehner is upset that the President took the high road and back-doored his ass on this issue. If the House wasn't going to try the bi-partisan route, then he figured out another way to get some sort of resolution on the table, after all, people's futures and lives are in the balance. You can't go forward, if you are stuck by your past.
Unfortunately, as usual, folks are being caught in the politcal crossfire. This particular time it involves the Latino community.
Boehner says we are operating in a hostile political enviroment. Really????
Are you referring to the hostile political climate that you, the Congress, Teapublicans, and big corporate lobbyists have created? Basically, the groups that are preventing ordinary, hard-working Americans from getting ahead.
What did we average American folks in the 99 percent, ever do to the 1 percent that causes them to support the constant sticking in the ass?
How much more money and power do you and your special interest folks need to take to be completely satisfied?
When is enough enough?
When will they realize that eventually the majority will get tired of being taken advantage of and their position will be threatened by the masses?
You can't keep screwing up most of the population without consequences.
I'm really more disgusted with Boehner because of his humble background. He grew up poor, so you would think that his uppity ass would be more sensitive to the plight of the poor.
But then again, when your pockets have been stuffed like a high-priced whore during convention weekend, you kinda forget those things.
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